Ladies – this one is for you. You get all dolled up when heading out for Girls Night Out, but rarely – if ever – for your man. You used to pay attention to the details and make it special for him. What you’re not doing now could really damage your relationship.
And yes, we notice. We remember how you used to do your hair and makeup when we first met. How you wore sexy heels and boots, how your lingerie was something to die for, and how that dress hugged your body in all the right ways. We remember that, and we miss that. Big time.
You’ve become comfortable in our long term relationship and have swapped your sexy shoes for comfy loafers. Your sexy dresses have been replaced by comfy pants. And your hair is quickly tossed in a ponytail or bun. We love you just the way you are, but we miss the super sexy you we knew at the start of our relationship.
It’s alarming and more than a little depressing knowing that you still get all sexy before you head out to the bars with your girlfriends. We know that other guys will be drooling over you and that you’ll be flirting with them. You want to look good and you want them to notice. Admit it.
We’re wondering why you aren’t into getting dolled up for us anymore. And it’s causing us to seek the attention of other women that do. You see, even though you might not appreciate us (or at least that’s what we take away from this), there are plenty of other women who will. They’ll do their hair and makeup for us. They’ll wear that sexy dress, those come-fuck-me shoes, and the bra that makes their breasts look like they’re a gift from the gods. And they’ll have our attention.
It’s important to get sexy for your guy every once in while. It doesn’t need to be every day, but you need to keep his attention and desire on you, or he’ll start looking elsewhere.
Guys – you should pay attention to this too. You’re not infallible here. Check yourself and make sure to offer your partner the eye candy she used to remember every now and then.