The first time you’re with a new sexual partner is an intoxicating experience that’s magical, erotic, exciting, and exotic all the one breathtaking interlude.
As much as people tend to shy away from one-night stands and hookups, these encounters share common traits to first time encounters with people we’re pursing for long term relationship – the big reveal.
The first sexual interlude with a new partner brings an array of highs that simply cannot be matched in sex sessions between seasoned partners. When the time is right to make your move, you’ve got a million things on your mind and an energetic cocktail of hormones and chemicals raging through your body.
Will he spank me and pull my hair? What does he/she taste like? Will I have the right moves and stamina to match my new partner? What will he/she think of my body and its delicate parts? Does she like bondage? Will she swallow? Will he run his hands over my body and through my hair? Will he move slow or fast?
The unknowns that come with a new partner, along with the anxiety of body issues we all seem to have, and the excitement of trying someone new is a truly exotic experience. If you’re with a person that matches you well, you’re left with the scent of their body on yours, weak legs, and a thousand sexy, naughty thoughts once the interlude is over.
Don’t get me wrong. Sex with a long-time partner is great. You’re familiar with each other’s bodies and likes/dislikes, and you’re able to branch into new territory every now and then. But nothing – absolutely nothing – beats the chemical intoxication that comes with a sexual rendezvous with someone new.