Open relationships are becoming more common today. The most common form of which is non-monogamy. Transforming a traditional relationship to a non-monogamous one requires that each partner agree on mutually agreed boundaries.
Ladies – this one is for you. You get all dolled up when heading out for Girls Night Out, but rarely – if ever – for your man. You used to pay attention to the details and make it special for him. What you’re not doing now could really damage your relationship.
“If You’re Not Having Sex With Your Man, Who Is?”
That was a great line I saw on a sexy photo online somewhere a few months back and the caption has stuck with me ever since. It applies not only to men, but women as well, and serves as a reminder to us all to pay proper attention to our partner, lest we find ourselves left out of what we thought was ours.
Monogamy is generally held up as the golden standard in intimacy when it comes to relationships. We’ve all been told that once you enter a serious relationship, monogamy is the name of the game. To step outside the boundaries of that limitation is a bold and risky move against the currents of society. But norms aren’t always healthy or wise, so let’s look at the pros and cons of monogamy vs non-monogamy.
The folks over at KinkyQuotes have done a fantastic job of creating some really tantalizing images that make some hot text messaging between partners. Text one of their quotes to your partner and see what their reaction is when they get home.
Today I received a spam email that threatened to disclose the fact that I created an account on AshleyMadison.com about a year ago if I didn’t pay up to prevent this disclosure. The contents of the message contained the typical blackmail lingo – that I would be humiliated if friends, family, and co-workers found out about it. The fact is, I’m not at all ashamed to say that I did have an account and still do today. Here’s why…
The folks over at MetArt have created SexArt.com – a site with incredibly erotic porn that is sure to titillate the senses. If you’re looking for something to spice up your sex life, be sure to check out some of the trailers for their short films. Your partner will almost certainly be as enthralled by these as you will.
They say that the first 9-18 months of a new couple’s sexual relationship is like that of a porn movie. Sex in every place, location, and position. Then there’s a transition to a longer term relationship where your sex life isn’t quite as porn star-ish as it used to be. To keep things hot in the bedroom (or elsewhere), many couple employ different methodologies to keep their passion on fire. One of these is through couples porn. Another is through the exploration of bondage.
A tantalizing mix of both can be found in “The Submission of Emma Marx” – an erotic tale of bondage spun into couples-friendly porn film. I challenge you and your partner to make it through the whole movie without tearing each others clothes off.
The film was produced by New Sensations – a great studio in the couples porn world. Watch the trailer below or visit the New Sensations site for a tantalizing preview.